While the ultimate goal is to spice up and strengthen relationships and marriages, intimate things adventurous couple should engage in vary from one couple to the other. Happy couples love fun and there is beauty in being weird with your partner in ways only the both of you understand how to spice your relationship up.
I used to know this couple in their early 50’s with 2 kids who were teenagers. I really admired them, not for anything but because I regarded their activities as the weirdest, sexiest and most romantic thing I ‘ve ever come across: they talk!
They’ll sit down together outside their home with no t.v., no project, sometimes whiskey, but just them. And they’ll talk for the next 3-4 hours alone. They can be described in my own words as the most compatible couple I”ve ever known.
They’ll talk about work. They’ll talk about their childhoods. They’ll talk about politics.
They’ll talk about culture. They’ll talk about projects they’d like to do. They’ll talk about books they’ve read.
They’ll talk about people they know, and what those people are doing, and what they think of that.
Sometimes in a week, they could do this like three times, some weeks up to five times but in the evenings.
Though relationships could be stressful, difficult and tough sometimes, it could also be filled with so much fun, excitement and happiness. Being in love with your significant other who understands and cherishes you in return can open a new door of beauty, weirdness and bring more sparks into your life.
The feeling of happiness, satisfaction and fulfillment that comes in any healthy and happy relationship shows how connected and compatible both partners are with each other. But then again, these characteristics doesn’t just come by, lots of efforts have been put to give such relationship or marriage the direction it has taken.
Intimacy goes beyond and deeper than love making. Being a happy couple depends on so many things aside the activities that goes on under the bed sheet. It’s true that $.e.x is an integral part of any union as it is believed to build a linkage or bond between two lovers, but then again there are some crazy, intimate, fun and weird things that can actually put lots of sparks in your relationship outside the bedroom.
At the initial stage of every relationship, the focus is for both partners to try to know each other gradually as the affair develops and progresses. Some people discuss their fears, what they like or love, what they expect, past relationships challenges, career and even the issue of $.e.x as part of the knowing process.
But as you start to get older in the relationship with your partner, a feeling of more connection starts building up in you. You start to see him/her in special ways and the feeling of togetherness and oneness increases which leads to bringing out the adventures in both of you.
Adventures has always been something most happy couples love to experience.
Our demanding career sometimes deprive couples that little time to spend together let alone enjoying the passion that comes naturally when they are left alone to explore their crazy and weird adventures. Most happy couples love crazy and weird things when they are together.
So if you and your partner belong to that group that would like to try crazy, weird and adventurous things and make your relationship colourful aside $.e.x, then here are some intimate and sexy things to do with your partner that will surely put a smile on their faces.
So whether you are married or yet to tie the knot legally and you feel or think your relationship or marriage needs some spices to bring life into it once again, then I want you to know that you can achieve this aim because there are actually lots of intimate things that can revive that relationship with your partners and help add sparks into that union.
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8 INTIMATE THINGS ADVENTUROUS COUPLE SHOULD ENGAGE IN
So if you and your partner belong to that group of individuals that would like to try other things and make your relationship colourful, here are some intimate and sexy things to do with your partner that will surely put a smile on their faces and making them glide in the high heavens.
Romantic, sweet and very intimate things adventurous couple should engage in besides $.ex. include:
1- Having a soapy bath together in the shower or bath without speaking to each other at all.
This is one crazy fun to spice up your relationship or marriage for every couple even if you don’t have a double shower or jacuzzi bathtub. Helping each other scrub your backs can be fabulous play for the both of you.
With that view in sight and with the closeness and the touching, your time in the shower or bath can easily turn into foreplay. Slow down the soaping up and caress each other. The water brushing up against your flesh can awaken your skin sensitivity, making you even more receptive to your partner’s body and attention.
This is a very good way to enhance your love and relationships.
2- Body Painting- Take your clothes off and paint each other’s bodies.
Sounds very weird right? Yeah, this is another fun way for happy couples to improve their intimacy level right in their studio room without going under the bed-sheets. This is a crazy date idea for adventurous couples.
You can start be removing your spouse’s clothing down to his/her birthday suit while your partner does same thing to you after which the actual paintings of your bodies begin.
When you are through with the paintings, admire your works, make fun at each others work on your bodies and finally press your bodies together against the canvass. This is what I call Crazy Body Art for couples! Fun right?
After you admire your work, another fun part of this is cleaning up together in the shower. Here, you both should make sure that you get off every paint from your bodies.
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3- Have a particular time table where the both of you could cook together.
Cooking together is one unique way happy couples do to get connected with each other. It is known to add glamour in their union and keep their relationship healthy.
Couples who take out time to cook together can attest to the fact that it is not just fun being in the kitchen but rather, it has proven to be the ultimate art of seduction.
When you cook together, your communication with your partner improves greatly. This is because the both of you are focused on the task on ground, rather than asking how was his day.
You can also you get to explore your partner’s culinary skills.
In the kitchen with your partner can make you to desire the food especially when it has a sweet smell and this can lead one to start wanting other sensual stimulation.
So why not cancel that proposed dinner in a restaurant and ask your partner to join you in the kitchen?
4- Helping each other to Shave or Shaving in front of your partner.
While its weird to see or watch while your partner takes off those hairs from his/her body, it could also be very romantic and fun watching them shave.
Better still, adding extra fun to it by helping to shave them off, including ”those places”. This could a form of foreplay as well and could lead to exciting times and great moments with each other that can be considered as of your most memorable days and times together.
Don’t be surprise to learn that your partner could even like it more than doing it himself/herself because it could be more sexy and visually attractive to them.
5- Both of you Playing the Stranger’s Game
The stranger’s game can lead to adding spice back into a relationship. You and your husband agree to meet at a bar, but you pretend you don’t know each other. He notices you and tries to hit you up.
While at this, you can bring out your drama/acting skills and show him you could be that tough little girl who doesn’t just fall for the charm of any handsome man easily. Resisting a little is very ok too, but for the desired results, you want his efforts to be successful.
The stranger’s game is one both of you must plan after conceiving the idea. Making it work also rests on your plan.
The venue of meeting should be somewhere where you’re not going to be noticed or spotted by people you know. Also, if you feel you may get worried you’re going to giggle and ruin the illusion, try meeting up and pretending you’re already in an established affair.
Role playing could just be great here especially during Halloween. Also, you can pick a sensual role to play e.g, you can play the naughty girl and ”pick him up” on the way.
6- Quiz each other
The both of you can step up your adventurous game by asking some random questions that bothers on yourselves alone and the relationship in every aspect. You may think you know your significant other very well but that could be a mistake because people change overtime.
While it could be hilarious, you could also get to know what your partner really fantasizes about, what they like, hate wish for etc.
Check out these couple quiz questions to get started, or try this how well you know? 50 fun questions for couples.
7- Pick an interest in your spouse’s sport activities.
According to Shelli Proffitt Howells while advising ladies, you don’t have to be a football widow every fall. Learn the rules of the game and get to know some of the players. You might enjoy rooting for the underdog.
My husband enjoys watching MMA, otherwise known as Ultimate Fighting. I started watching with him. I learned some of the athletes’ histories, which made them more interesting to me.
I discovered that it isn’t as brutal a sport as it first appears, and there is a lot of strategy involved. I really enjoy going out to dinner at a sports bar and watching the fights. It has become a fun way to spend time together.
8- Go shopping together for underwear and lingerie
Shopping for racy presents with your partner can be an extremely rewarding experience.
Not only does picking out a kinky, sexy thong or see-through slip have the obvious benefit of building positive sexual anticipation; the communication it requires can be a huge boost to your bond as a couple.
As you may ever imagine, lingerie is not just about looking sexy and hot, it’s also about bringing out that fantasy in you, say Cameron Datz, a 28-year-old publicist who regularly hits up adult stores with her partner. “Fantasy can be very elusive, but taking the time to figure out what turns you both on is incredibly intimate.”
It could also be a gift the both of go to buy for each other instead of making it a surprise thing.
Finally, One of the greatest parts of any relationship is the ability to experience the world together. In this regard you reveal your innermost emotions, thoughts and feelings to your partner who in turn does the same thing, leading to more communication and intimacy of both partners.
So, let me read your thoughts on this and also add yours.