Here is a collection of the best sexual acts every couple needs to engage in the bedroom to bring out that sparks in especially for couples who are adventurous and like to try out new things.
Even if you’re totally satisfied with your $.ex life, there’s nothing wrong with wanting to kick it up a notch or two. So, if you’re looking to enhance your own experience or try something new but don’t know where to start, I’ve got you covered.
I reached out to several women and asked them to dish on the moves that took their $.ex lives from good to great. Feel free to try one—or all!
“One time when my ex and I were having $.ex, he pulled my hand down and encouraged me to touch myself while we went at it,” says one woman. “I’d never touched myself in front of a guy, let alone during $.ex. But I tried it and the result was, well, orgasmic!
It was a turn-on for him, because he got to see me touch myself, and what guy *doesn’t *want that? Plus, I got to control my pleasure. That’s a win-win, and something I’ve continued to do ever since!”
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“I used to be very tense during oral $.ex,” says another woman. “I enjoyed how it felt, sure, but my mind was always reeling with worry about how I looked, tasted, and smelled. Then, I was with a guy who paused mid-oral to tell me just how good I tasted.
Knowing how much he was enjoying himself was a huge turn-on—and it also eased a huge worry for me. Now I am worry-free when he’s down there!”
“My boyfriend loves it when I use two hands when I give him a blow job,” says another. “I’d always used one hand—you know, stroking up and down while I used my mouth—but now I use one to stroke and the other to massage his balls, or I take a break with my mouth so that I can stroke with both hands but twist in opposite directions. He tells me that the extra stimulation brings things over the top for him.”
“We don’t have $.ex until he’s gone downtown,” says one woman. “I know that sounds ridiculously demanding, but it’s how I get off—and until I asked for that extra step, I would literally never orgasm. Now, we have a routine that means we both get off, and that makes both our $.ex lives so much better.”
“A guy I had been dating for a while mentioned that he’d like to hold my throat during $.ex,” says another. “Honestly, it really scared me at first. But he explained he wouldn’t squeeze and that it was just a control thing for him. So, we tried it—and oh my God, I loved it!
It’s about as far as I can go with domination, but there’s something about a guy being in control and dominating me that makes $.ex so much hotter. When we broke up, I definitely thought to myself, how am I going to ask the next guy to grab my throat without sounding like a weirdo? Because I love it so much, I know it’s something I’ll want again.”
“My boyfriend crooks his fingers when he’s touching me, kind of like a come-hither motion, but with two fingers,” says one woman. “It’s the hot-button move—it leads to an orgasm every time!”
“The next time you try doggy-style, do it this way,” describes another, “and it will make you love this position even more: Kneel on the edge of a bed, but then press your chest to the mattress. The first time we tried this position, it was like a whole new experience. It feels so much better than when you kneel straight—plus, your butt looks really good at that angle!”
Any experience or addition? Kindly air your thoughts in the comment section.